To different minds the same world is a hell and a heaven

Me: Oh gosh! That place was stunning.

My friend: Yuck! I just hate that, why is your taste degrading day by day?

Gone through a conversation like this? Heard something like this? As in not just about the place, everything you see in your daily life.

This minute opinion of yours can be the starting point of a never-ending world war. Am I exaggerating? No worries, this truly happens.

Assume a group of people. Let it be friends, family, cousins, etc. Have you ever observed that group doing the same thing together, all the time? The most common answer that pops up in everyone’s mind is ‘family’. Yes, a family does everything together. This takes place due to love for each other, parents maturity, and parents sacrifice for their kids. I am not asking you to sacrifice for your friends but there is no place to judge.

Every person is made distinctively,they develop their views and opinions accordingly. We cannot expect others to come in our way. When someone gives their opinion, if you don’t like it, just smile and leave. You should acknowledge the places where you should stay silent. Don’t strike their opinion with your words. There is no such rule that your opinion should get others’ nod.

It is significant to revere your neighbors’ statement, like how you do yours.Think twice before you speak, because haste just makes waste. Stay calm and always put your best foot forward.

If you want to be peaceful, smile at your worst, and smile at the negative people around you.Trust me, you can stay cheerful, and when you look back, you will never find a situation in your life that you should regret about.

I cannot promise you that it will solve all your problems, but it might help you in not going deep into some unnecessary webs.

I am practicing this, and surprisingly this helps!!!!!!

Lavanya Appana

About Lavanya Appana

I seek pleasure from my sufferings and take delight in facing the music as that is how I learn to stand erect. Writing helps, when I feel blue. Forsooth, it lands me in seventh heaven. Introspect yourself, knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.

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